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Knowing how to get to know someone is one of those things that seems simple on paper, but is often surprisingly difficult. Well, getting to know someone is often easier said than done. Connecting on a surface level is a breeze — you do it with the person who serves your coffee or rings up your groceries all the time.

While it may take some time for someone to fully warm up to you, simply looking someone in the eye and smiling is the first step to forming a connection.

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And after all, getting to know a new person is fun. The initial smile sets the tone for the coming conversation. A person is much more likely to be willing to open up if the mood is lighthearted and pressure-free.

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Before you start getting too deep, just scratch the surface with some small talk. Your mutual surroundings should provide adequate inspiration. Talking about the weather is always an easy one. This initial conversation is just to help the other person to feel more comfortable around you.

Once you feel comfortable moving on to slightly more in-depth topics, you can use conversation starters to help the other person open up further. The art of starting a conversation requires that you know your audience. Asking a potential employee about his pets would probably come off a bit weird. On the other hand, puppies and kittens make an easy, lighthearted conversation topic on a first date. Good conversation starters are that middle ground between small talk and getting to know you questions that are a bit more personal.

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